Frequently Asked Questions

This is a private men’s group for those seeking something deeper — brotherhood, connection, and presence without pretense. We offer a space for men to let their guard down, drop the performance, and just be real. No labels, no pressure — just honest, grounded male bonding. 

Not at all. In this group, we are all simply men.
This isn’t about sexual identity — it’s about human need. Most of us have spent our lives starving for closeness with other men. Here, you get to stop pretending that need doesn’t exist. 

No. This is not a sex group.
We are a private brotherhood rooted in trust, connection, and mutual respect. Some gatherings may include physical expression or nudity, but these moments are never about performance or hooking up. They’re centered on emotional presence, consent, and safety.

What happens in our space is private and meaningful — not for entertainment or shock value.
If you're mainly looking for sex, this probably isn't the space for you.

Every gathering is different — but always grounded in presence and respect. Some events involve group discussion, shared silence, music, or breathwork. Others are more experiential, allowing men to explore connection in ways most of us were never taught. You’re never pressured to participate in anything. How you show up is up to you.

Yes — and they matter.

Every man agrees to uphold the core values of the Brotherhood:
Honor. Trust. Loyalty. Respect.

There are also clear expectations around consent, boundaries, hygiene, and discretion. These guidelines are in place to protect every man who steps into this space and will be shared with you via email once you begin the verification process.

Then you’ve found a kindred spirit. Confidentiality is a core agreement in this Brotherhood. What happens here stays here — no exceptions. Everyone who joins commits to discretion and nonjudgment.

Absolutely.
Every man who’s walked through the door has felt nervous at some point — probably even scared. You’ll be met with respect, not judgment. There’s no script, no performance, no “right way” to be here. Just show up as you are.

And if you need a little extra support, we also offer Integrated Brotherhood Coaching — a way to help you settle in, work through personal blocks, and feel more confident navigating this experience.

Both — and neither. This is something different.
Some men come to talk. Some come to connect. Some come just to be. We're not therapists, but what happens here can be deeply healing. We believe that real brotherhood is medicine — and most of us have gone too long without it.

No. We don’t offer professional therapy. But we do offer something most therapy never can — raw, human presence. Eye contact. Stillness. Touch. Truth. It's not clinical — it’s primal. And for many men, it’s exactly what’s been missing.

If you’ve ever felt alone in a room full of people...
If you’ve ever wanted to be close to another man without feeling weird about it...
If you’re tired of pretending everything's fine...

This is probably for you.

You don’t have to have it all figured out. Just show up. The rest unfolds naturally.

The Brotherhood is about real, face-to-face connection — the kind that existed before social media and screen time took over. We believe true brotherhood is built through presence, not profiles.

Instead of typing behind a screen, we invite you to take an old-school approach:
Talk to someone at an event. Ask a brother to hang out. Start a real friendship.

If we ever create an online space, it will be guided by the same values of trust, discretion, and meaningful connection. But for now, we’re keeping things rooted in the real world — right where brotherhood belongs.